Indecision can be one of the most stressful states in my experience.
Why does it happen? Because:
- each choice has an unwelcome part relative to the other
- and I might be blamed (even if it’s by myself) for the consequences.
That is a lot to shoulder and in my view it is helpful to recognise that the root is my relationship-to-blame-and-fear. This may or may not be enough to pull me through, but it will certainly point me to the only way out.
Author: JD
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